Personal Life in Proffesional Life

This is what I have experienced in the last four to five months. The life of an I.T professional is among the most hectic life on the earth. When you are a fresher , you are like a kite...flying high in the sky...with no limit.You are quite enthusiastic about your new job. Do every thing possible to make impression on ur seniors.Spending most of the time in Canteen and least in the ODC. Planning high for the weekend and then spending ur salary in visiting new places. This is what that remains for the first few months..

Then slowly the scenario changes. One of ur friend gets a project and now he can be no more free to spend time with u. Slowly each of the friend gets into a different project and each one has his PL controlling over him. If they share a flat, then they can luckily share their thoughts at the end of the day...however talks never remain the same. The talks that one consisted of the most beautiful girl in ur office or in ur project...now shift to project module in which they are working , complaining about their PL etc.

The timings too get affected! Gone were the days when you use to come at eleven and leave around five....now you have to come early, and u don't know when u will leave.!Your Strength can be ur biggest weakness. If you performed well in ur project...then that good....but not that good also. This will make an impression that u can handle a lot of work and now u have more work to look into!!Slowly this work makes u frustrated and you are no more the same person that ur friends knew.The frustration happens more coz it cant be expressed on the person on which it should be...moreover ur friends become the victims of that. Then slowly differences starts between friends and good friends now turn to be just friends.Weekends are now only meant for sleeping and paying bills and rent.You plan sumthing big for the coming weekend and then one of ur friend tells that he cannot be with there coz he has to come to office on weekends too!