Stepping out !!

Till the time you were with your parents, nothing appears to be impossible for you. But the moment you step outside the baby strolly, real picture appears. Food that you use to always complain to ur mom , now you would pay anything to get it. The scolding of parents now appears to be the real lessons of life. You wont have anyone to always scream at you to take ur lunch and dinner at time.

If you are fortunate than u might be posted in the same region where u were born , and if not than get ready for some AWWWWWful experience. Especially if u are a north Indian and u have been posted to a southern part of the Country than its even worse. The next very thing that may trouble you is the language. Believe me , I spend two and a half hour just to buy a sim card. He didn’t knew hindi and his English was nothing less than that of queen Victoria!! At the end I had to get my mobile recharged from one another shop becoz that person was making me completely mad. People in south , are very much in promoting in their mother language. Even if you try to speak in English to an educated person , he would speak one or two Keral word which may lead you to think that was there any such word in English ?

Whenever you go a restaurant , the first thing that you ask for is water. But here also there is something in store for u . They present before you hot pink coloured water. Ya but one thing that’s good here is that NoN-VEG here is really cheap. Though the quality is not as good as Nawabon ka Shehar(Lucknow) , but atleast better than the veg preparations !!. The rice here consumed is called Sortex rice. It is much thick than the usual basmati rice. So before you take it , think twice. The paratha here is called as parotha….made from maida and very similar to laccha paratha .

Now moving to people and there behavior. People here are quite honest and very punctual . If you are posted together with ur friend than it’s the right time to test their friendship. When the real world problems would appear, then only you would be able to find who is your real friend and who is friend only for the name. People may appear to be ur friend in college days , have good time in roaming here and there but were they really with you when u really needed them ? If yes than is the the only friend that u may always trust, otherwise its better to keep a distance with such people.

So , always act as you have been alone in this world. Have trust but never trust blindly on anyone. This would not only make you responsible , but also help you to survive better in the world.

Hi Everyone !!
This is my first blog after comming to Trivandrum. Nice place situated in God's own country , Kerala. The first week started with the visit holiday at Eid. Me along with my friends went to Kovallam beach. My first visit to beach. Enjoyed it a lot .

Joining

Last but not the least ....my joining has finally arrived!! Now the thing to notice is that am I happy with it or am I sad !! Happy bcoz after sem. result this is the next very thing that I have been waiting for a long time . And the reason for my sadness accounts to is the final depart from the college friends , My Parents , Colony Friends , School friends , special friends , irritating friends and the lovely people who always thought that I was always the cause of a conflict. Will be missing a lot...Lucknow ka nono-veg , Mummy ki daat , doston ka saath , My dear Julie n Bruno , Apna College, Wo taechers............apna School . Its like after 23 yrs u are ask to start your life again from a scratch ! I have always been tried to be a nice person but hamesha trageday ho jaati hai....I may also be remembered for those tragedies.!! I always use to pray ki kuch bhi ho but lko joining na aye...tab ye soch kar khush tha ki ab yahan se bahar niklane ko milega...but ab chhodne ka dil nahin kar raha hai !! Bas gum is baat ka rahega ki I was not able to express myself to the right person at right time....aur kiya bhi to wo samjhe nahin....now this topic ends here . Me getting a little bit senti.!! wait for my next post !!

Learning leads to success

The first step to success...the learning. Weather its ur studies or any other activity, all it requires is the Learning. Many a times we just find the learning a tiering job and give in between coz we are not use of putting so much effort in our work . I f that happens with u , then all u need is a little bit of dedication. Just think of the environment after you have achieved for what u have been working so hard . It might just bring a smile on ur face . Now your that very smile is the ADRENALIN that boost you to perform better . " SUCCESS IS A JOURNEY NOT A DESTINATION " I just dont know who said this but whoever said it is absolutely true . But whats a journey without a destination ? The journey is very hard , in ur way u will meet people who are there to misguide u , to make ur Morale down , but you should be firm in believing urself . At times you will also meet people who might just motivate you . Its like we all are the wheels that are moving on the road called life . Evey wheel is capable of moving by its own . But if two Wheels(people) are together , they not just balance each other but provide an extra pace too. The person can be ur friend or ur loved ones. This very person now becomes the reason of ur Success. Every time you achieve something..the smile would be not only on ur face but on her/his face too. I happens with me also. Its always been her that really motivates me to do better . Ups and down are like sumthing that all of us face early or later . But we should always m,ake it a reason for ur success not for a failure .

Always remember that life is beautiful and Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right time.

"Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life - think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success, that is the way great spiritual giants are produced." - Swami Vivekananda

The Work

Finally the college is over, and u are in the job. No more roaming with the friends , watching movies , attending lectures n no more sleeping till late in the morning !! And if its a Night shift ..its like bell in the hell. Its not like u cant sit infront of ur system for whole night , but sitting idle for hours and waiting for one single call that starts ur sale is like something horrible. Who says man that a BPO job is the easiest one and any one can get int it. It takes 3 bloody shit interviews for u to finally be on the floor and after that waking up till the morning until ur shift is over. While spending money never thought that it was earned with such a effort. Hanging up the calls from ur mobile network sales executive is such a easy but u are in his place then u get the real pictures of what he faced . People say that being in a BPO job is such a cheap thing ....but what I say is that a person become cheap by the way he thinks and not by the work he do. No work is small or big....its ur thinking that distinguishes into them....Seen a person earning Rs 14000 in a Technical field and a BPO person cashing Rs 35000 in a month !!HUh !!

Farewell

Finally we had our farewell on 10th April !! It was a nice arrangement Atleast I didn't expected it from our college!! Kuch zyada hi accha tha. everyone was nicely dressed. My mood at that moment of time was quite mixed. I was happy that finally we are at the end of our graduation...but it was the reason for sadness too. What after the college is over?? Everyone forgets...but some people like me don't forget it at all. The day reminds me of the first day when I entered the college!!

That day was the orientation program. We all were in the hall. I didn't knew anyone. I still remember that day our V.C asked us to focus on English speaking. Yaseen was the first person whom I met , and was my first friend too!! later Asim joined me and then the chain continued. Then were taken on the round on all of the college!! starting from Lecture classes, main hall, Practical Labs , Workshops and finally LIbrary!! My first class was LS-6. Mere aaj tak samajh mein nai aya ki Ls ka kya matlab hai!! First class was of Shilpi maam...Mathematics!! ROLL NO. 0600115040...PALLAV JOHARI....." maam present" that was the first 2 words I spoke....

CHANGE!! U NEED IT!!

change is the truth of the world...everyone needs to change for survival. The one who resist the change is destroyed!! Eg: Dinosaurs( Old habbit of giving the examples).
We humans also need to change...according to time, our needs and most importantly for the people we love!! No one loves the change....its always painful, even transformation of caterpillar to butterfly is painful, buy ultimately its the latter that is being loved!!

We humans also hate changes......(supporter of Narayan Shankar of Mohabbatien) but ultimately a person comes in ur life that insists u to change!!( quite similar o Raj Aryan of Mohabbatien!!)

Love

Hi,
This one is my second blog ....My earlier one was about friendship...I hope u liked it!! Well this one talks about Love............LLLOOOVVVEEE

Love is one of the most beautiful thing on This earth!! At least this is what I have felt when I have fallen in it! Your aim in life, Way of thinking, from ur dressing sense to the words you speak...everything changes. A person suffering from love can be easily figured out from a crowd.

Here are the certain characteristics taht you notice in a guy fallen in love..
1.) A new sort of glow starts appearing on his face.
2.) He spends much more time on his cell.
3.) He leaves u saying..." Yaar ek kaam yaad aa gaya" or something like this" Kal Free nai hun...Phir kabhi ka program banate hain!!...and u being his good friend knows what exactly that ZAROORI KAAM is !!


and most important......aapke friend k cell ki phone book mein ek naya contact add ho jata hai.....Like " PALLAV NEW"

That's really nice....being loved is more important than loving someone.

I believe in love at first sight and it happens also practically.........
But some times aapki poori graduation khatam ho jati hai and u just cant figure out that are u that lucky one or not!!

Having commitment with someone or being in relationship with someone is extreemy important....or u can say imoprtant element of living. Now apart from ur parents now u have more people to worry for u!! U become a good in managing ur pocket money, become quite punctual about time.....and bla bla bla!!

happiness

million dollar question!! what a happiness mean to u? Is it the one that is reflected on ur face once u met ur girl friend or that one that ur mom feels when u have achieve success? Well actually both are the same thing bt from different people!! Happiness is the ultimate need of every human.

However certain times come when there is a reason to smile but u dont actually smile. Who has stopped u ? no one!! bt there is something that is still missing and making ur lips stiched. Often there are certain mistakes that everyone commits....bt can a mistake be so big that it cant be forgived? "the one who forgives is bigger than the one who commits" that true! Ever thinked of the person who committed the mistake? It might be possible that there would be some reason for why he did so!! No one likes to do mistakes but they are certain circumstances that forces him to do so , Its like travelling in the disbalanced aircraft and u dont know whether to jump or to stay! the death is for sure!!

You try to realax, try to make things go normal but it doesnt happens this way!! At every moment some thing or the other comes right infront of you that takes you back to the OLD MEMORIES!! then what one should do? Should he start running from such situations or face them? And if face them then from where will u get the courage to do so? Writing a blog is easy but to face the real circumstances that I am facing right now is equally difficult!!

If I were to describe myself in a single word then it would be ISOLATED!! Trying hard to make thing look as if nothing would have happenED!!

Thing appear to be changing.....not coz I changed it.....But I suppose others liked the way...I let it happen........Sntence framing nor appears to be correct? Well Thanks to god that a ray of hope has started sneaking in the dark rooms of my mind......or else the sentence would have not been existing....framing is much beyond that I have ever thought!!